Child Safety How a child Dies Everyday from child Abuse and bullying

Hello and welcome! So I have built a new website on wordpress called The Arch Angels Network, and did you know a child dies everyday from child abuse and bullying?

It is so easy to be a target with the wonders of the internet, and this includes kids committing suicide and going missing because they are experiencing this at home and run away.

In this video I talk about this subject of kids dying from abuse and bullying, please see video below:

When it comes to abuse and bullying in a childs home it can be very difficult to monitor and stop because the thing about Abusers and Bullies they manipulate and can often be a family member or a close friend.

I think if we had more Policing in schools would make a difference and sitting down with parents to discuss it and kids organisations, because it is still happening and needs to be stopped.

I would be interested in your thoughts. Please leave a comment below.

Here is the link to my new website and if you would like to share your story of being abused or bullying then there is a contact form provided on this site and remember there is always National childrens bureau, childline and NSPCC.

https://thearchangelsnetwork.wordpress.com

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

P.S: I have set up a Facebook page too and a Pinterest page too:

https://www.facebook.com/The-Arch-Angels-Network-100632145390147

New Child Safety Course and New Network Site

Hello and welcome! So in this blog I am sharing details of my New Child Safety course to help parents, kids clubs, organisations and institutes protect children, and stop them from being Abused or Bullied.

My course will consist on written information, blog posts, PDFs and Videos.

I have already added the Introduction to the course on the course I am developing and on Youtube and my follow on video, below, is talking about How in the UK we can be more vigilant, and petrol kids settings by having Police Officers working with these clubs, schools, Nurseries and clubs.

I have also set up a new site called The Arch Angels Network, using WordPress aswell which is for Kids being Abused or bullied and is an extra place for them to go and get tips and information.

https://thearchangelsnetwork.wordpress.com

So many thanks for reading,

Carrie L.M X

Teaching kids about bullying and abuse

I think in this day and age that any act such as bullying and abuse carried out, should be looked into immediately and investigated, because it still does go on and I remember when working in the nursery in Wimbledon, when we had what was known as a “Peanut Drill”, that someone was trying to get in.

I was absolutely shitting myself, and tried to keep myself calm, but getting all the kids together without a fuss became a difficult task, and I couldn’t help but panic and the children were hysterical.

People who do this kind of act aren’t worth the blood they were born with, and as far as I am concerned, is the worst thing a person can do and they have no remorse at all.

It makes me see that abusing a child aswell as bullying can be hidden in families and you wouldn’t even know it, and yes they should all be locked up with the key thrown away and given life.

If they take a life they should get life and I am going to fight for it and have all Paedophiles nicked and given life with no rights at all.

My dad could bully me, but he never abused me and I do miss him so much. I am sad I never got to see him before he died and I am gutted about that, I thought he was against me too, but he was just angry.

He taught me how to fight back and yes, I did, and I will continue to fight for children’s rights and stop all abuse and bullying from happening and it is tricky and often controversial topic, but I feel I want to talk about it, as I would like victims of these kind of acts to tell their stories to help others do so aswell.

All kids who have lost their lives I want a monument built and all the names of kids that have died due to abuse in memory of them all, be called “The Angels of Heaven” and have their names on it.

Once a child’s life has been taken you can’t bring them back and yes it causes suicide too, and I felt that a lot this year and is not good when you hit rock bottom. I did take an overdose last Christmas, and I yes my son didn’t know what was going on, but I literally took 3 to 4 Diazepanes in one go. I was a complete mess.

Abuse and bullying can turn a happy go lucking child into a mess and is so soul destroying that it can cause hurt to an entire family, and those who I felt were there to look out for me weren’t and yes it has changed who I am, and it can make a child feel like that too.

If you are abused remember you can always called Childline and they will act straight away.

Those who laugh about it when doing an act of bullying or abuse aren’t human, they are animals and cowards and need to be taught that if you do this, then you need to do the time for doing the crime, and yes all schools, kids clubs, nurseries and playgroups should have a Safeguarding officer to stop it or a welfare office, which I would like to do one day and get it kicked put.

Stay Safe, Be Strong.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

Child Abuse and spotting the signs

 

The image above is from the New York Times.

I want to write about this as, because living on a housing estate it went on a lot, and it is the most soul destroying thing you can ever experienced. 

There are angels in heaven that have been abused and killed, and it can devastating to everyone involved. It is soul destroying and can take over your childhood. 

No child should be made to feel like can’t have a life, as
every child deserves to have a childhood that is filled with fun and happy
memories and I want to make sure that every child in the world is protected.

I am going to campaign for all Paedophiles and rapist,  to be punished and be given life and spend their life in jail, with no rights.

How can you sense that a child is being abused:

Body language

·      If they are quiet not playing with other kids

·      If they have bruising near their private areas,
arms and legs

·      If they are bleeding from the bottom

·      If they have any discharge

·      If they start to abuse other kids

·      If they are argumentative, disruptive and
aggressive to others

·      Withdrawn

 

What are the signs of an abuser?

·      Grooming a kid to try and to see the child
privately

·      Taking inappropriate photos of children

·      Asking inappropriate questions

·      Breaching Data Protection

·      Seeing an adult whisper in a child’s ear

·      Treating a child differently to 

If you know of a child being abused or you are a child, teenager reading this, then contact Childline.

Please do teach kids about not talking to strangers. The thing about those who abuse kids, they come in all different shapes and sizes. In the 80’s they did
do adverts about this and be careful about sharing details online on social
media pages, as pictures of kids can be temptation for Paedophiles.

I do think they should do another advert about talking to strangers
including talking to strangers online and sharing too much information.

One thing I would take out from social media sites is areas where they ask
you to share your location, and can be seen by anybody.

We need to be sensible when it comes to this because we don’t want our children’s information being breeched by those who carry out these crimes.

Those who abuse and rape children, may not have previous, because the hardest thing is proving it, and there are those who make it up, which makes it difficult for those who have actually been abused as a child, and many will be too scared to say anything and so it can be difficult to track it down. 

Doing a CRB or DBS check is one way, but as said many don’t have previous convictions, so it is still hard to track down, and be stopped. 

I am in the process of developing a Child Safety online course and so once it has been completed I will let you know. 

For now though lets keep our kids safe and stay strong, and have a good week ahead. 

Before I end this blog post I would like to tell you about my fundraiser I am doing again this year as I like to do this every year, as we get nearer to Christmas, and I am raising money for the Charity Tommy’s who support parents whom have experienced Stillbirths and Premature births. Here is the link to my site below:

https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/theparentingadventuresprematurebirths

Many thanks for reading, 

 

Carrie X 

P.S: Here is a free printable to help you spot the signs of a child who you suspect is being abused:

child-abuse-printable-1Download