We as parents can be harsh on ourselves, like today when earlier I took him to park and when it was time to leave, he didn’t want to, and did have a tantrum, and there were some girls who didn’t want to play with him, and so when that happens he then wants to continue to try and be friends, so I took him out of that situation, and other childen can be mean, and so I didn’t want to stop his fun, but some bigger girls came into the park which looked like alcohol and I just felt we had to go, and yes I felt really bad, in doing that, but if Henry could play all day he would, but yet we still would have had to come home, now it gets darker earlier.
This is why it is good to pay us attention as we can forget about ourselves and often don’t give ourselves a break.
It is time we did that, and Take 5, and I have spoken about this a lot on parentng as we need to take care of ourselves to stay on track with life, it that could be taking 5 minutes to make a cup of tea for ourselves, or to have a freshen up for the day, and so the first, tip I want to give is,
Tips1# Set a date with yourself.
So set a time and a day just for yourself and that can be a night out meeting friends and having a social life again, as this can all stop when becoming a parent, but we need that break, and to see different people.
Go to the Cinema, or a theatre show, along with a meal out and just take yourself out on a break.
The next tip I am gonna give to you, is set reward yourself, we do this for our kids but never ourselves but we should, do so,
Tip2# Reward yourself
This can be a jar of cofffee, or a coffee from the coffee shop, rather than making it yourself, or a date with the bath tub with some Epsom salts or gift set which has bath and shower products. I reward myself by doing self care and this time it was a magazine and a coffee in a coffee shop to read the magazine I bought.0
Why not reward yourself with getting a makeover, they used to do this in Boots and I have done this before when gone into Debenhams in Wimbledon and it is nice to have someone else to my makeup for a change.
Tip3# Getting fit and simple parenting fitness
This can be having a kick about with your kids, or have you and your kids follow you in doing a fitness routine, that the whole family can do, like Zumba or yoga, and even going swimming, obviously in this time of year an indoor pool, but is worth it. When I was pregnant with Henry I took up swimming and it was so nice, and a great form of exercise.
Wack on a fitness dvd or put on Youtube and do a workout, and great to do during nap time, if you not able to nap with them.
Tip4# Have a TV binge day
So today I did this watched Match of the day, then a political show and then a David Attenborough type of programme, and whilst my mum looked after Henry, I had time to go back to bed as I was super tired and just needed that extra lay down.
I did this also after being back from popping out myself, binged on TV and watch some cycling races, and then Wallis and Grommit film. It is good to have this type of day, especially when it is cold outside, and I find it super cosy.
So just take time and look after yourself, it is so important and gain back some peace and time to recuperate.
I do also make Youtube videos on parenting so here is a like to my channel and is under The Truth About Parenting:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUDFIqjVKLy7NhtcR6Hy0Tg
Many thanks for reading,
Carrie X