- Tiredness and sleep deprivation in parents can last until they are 3 years and older
- There is no one way, everyone can have a different style of parenting, who’s judging?
- Continues to be challenging, especially come potty training time
- Every minute of the day matters
- When you get free time to yourself, finally, you can feel lost
- If you suffer with Anxiety it can increase
- No time off really
- Tantrums are non avoidable at times no matter what you try to prevent and stop them
- Once your child begins walking you are forever running
- You never know what your child is going to do at times, but that’s the joy of it all
I would love to know what things you have learned to.
Many thanks for reading,
I didn’t expect this would be easy, but you do have to take a chunk of your schedule to go through this new transition, I discovered. I have to accept that Henry will have accidents and it may take several times for my son to get used to the fact that he won’t be toileting in the nappy anymore.
We have had some success, 3 times so far, but now it as if he is avoiding going in the potty, but is understanding that if he needs to go, it has to be in the nappy, and so it is teaching him to communicate to us too, that he needs to go. Get used to not having a nappy on. I did introduce pants, but they lasted on him about 2 minutes, so need to continue with this one.
So on Sunday I am going try different techniques and see if we have success.
It is going to take time, but I know I just have to be persistent and start teaching him that soon there will be no nappy and will have to use the potty or toilet.
I will report back once I have learned more.
Many thanks for reading,
Yes we are potty training at the moment, and yesterday Henry used his potty for the first time and actually had a pea.
Why am I sharing this?
Well because I know how tricky of a transition it is. One minute they are in nappies next they are having to use this plastic thing and it is a different ball game altogether.
We did have a little accident the day before, I won’t say anymore, but I had to stick Henry straight in the bath, but least it happened in the right place, the bathroom, just not in the potty itself, well some of it was but I hadn’t realised until I trod straight into it.
As said before you can prepare yourself but you can never really plan, when it comes to children.
Sorry for the TMI. Henry will probably be totally embarrased if he reads this when he is 18 years old. However it is out of good reason to help and give support to other mums, who may also be potty training now too.
If your child is potty training at the moment too, then my advice is to persist and be patient. If they aren’t ready then do not fear, you will soon know when they are. Henry was even asking for the potty and tells us when he needs his nappy changed. So children do pick up new skills quicker than what we think they do.
So true when it comes to children, every day is different, and you don’t know what to expect, so you just have to continue on, the best you can.
Anyway I will keep you updated on more news and what I am learning as a parent.
Thanks for reading,